Who cares? I do. Do ‘’they’’ irl care at all? I haven’t found that they do. That’s my personal experience. Minimising and saying it doesn’t matter isn’t helpful, to me. Or being prescribed the “wrong treatment” .. or simply being fobbed off.
that matters. Since I try to practise self care I dislike it when others fail to care. It’s unprofessional.

Not sure why I started this thread. Sometimes I don’t have the knack of starting threads that promote useful discussion.