Hiya Bill3, I've been wondering the same thing for quite some time now. bullying is not working otherwise his evil plan would've already worked so at least there's that! Upsides, upsides

puzzlemaker13, you're right!! There is no warmth, kindness or love in pushing or bullying anyone into doing things they're not comfortable to do especially regarding sex. I no longer feel obligated to meet his urges.

Divine1966, thank you for you divine insight you're right, this relationship may not be the best idea, I am gradually realising. winter4me you are also right, thank you for sharing - I won't be giving in any time soon.

shelda , I thought I saw him as a boyfriend, something special. It's not worked out that way bpcyclist thank you for your lovely words we all should be treated with love and dignity and respect, you're right.

Thank you all for your replies and your support it means so much to me at this time I hope you're all well and having a lovely week