My husband and I have been married for less than a year together for almost three altogether. From the beginning anytime an issue arises on either side there is never responsibility accepted on his part no matter how bad it is.. he also absolutely refuses to ever apologizes no matter how awful the issue/argument was or became. There is always something I have done to warrant his response. For example the other night he took me the wrong way got really mad so my response was to separate from him and I sent him a text apologizing for saying it in a way that could be taken the wrong way and reasoning with him that an arguement was just a waste of time for us to just try and forget about it. Fast forward an hour he said something that I took wrong. I got upset and went in the bedroom crying. He proceeded to turn the radio up as high as he could and play some rap song about how he doesn’t care anything about me/he has another b**** and threw stuff in our kitchen. Needless to say I was very hurt but for the sake of not fighting didn’t try to keep anything going ,thinking he would see how hurtful it was in the daylight, I just tried to make nice and gave up on it for then. I let a day pass kinda mentioned it hurt me no response change subject. Today when I woke up I still wasn’t my same very affectionate self but I was cordial. We went outside and he asked me what was wrong. I told him that I was hurt from all that the other night that it was abusive the way he treated me sometimes and something needed to change bc I was on the verge of leaving. He blew up on me and walked in. He thought I said I had found someone else which is not the case. Before you know it he was “leaving me” He threatens divorce anytime I dare have an issue. He has called me so man names I can’t think straight. I’m to sensitive I bring up dumb s***. The way I think is stupid. He changed password to our bank app and cell phone app when I have dine anything while he is mad even if he said it was ok before hand. Has told me to pack my s*** and leave or I can get out of his house multiple times. Now let me be straight forward. I’m not the sweetest easiest to get along with person. We have different parenting styles. Different personalities I’m sure I’m a b word by most standards but I still can feel like I’m deserving of these things. Am I delusional or can any of this be classified as emotional abuse? It’s always my fault and he doesn’t care whatsoever how I feel about anything. Somehow I just feel like this isn’t ok or normal. Is it just me please help