*would just like to add that I've had years of counseling and meds as well. Can't say we didn't try.

At the end of the day, though, all it is not what it seems out there in the world. Everybody has their own path and their own set of challenges to overcome and/or deal with. Look at the homeless man slumped on the pavement, passed out, drunk. He may have been trying for years to rise above his difficulties, too. Or the doctor who just couldn't overcome his secret inner demon and hangs himself. We mustn't judge.