Narcissist have a lot of bad traits. I was abused but those people may not have all of the traits to be a narcissist. I have no idea. They may even have bad traits that narcissist don't have. My problem was that I was very different than the other kids. I like being around adults until that criminal teacher abused me every day physically emotionally mentally. As a kid I liked day dreaming all day about flying or making a flying car like in the movie chitty chitty bang bang (lol I loved that movie!!), or about ETs & UFOs or psychics & bigfoot ..., not playing with hot wheels & hide and seek & sports.