This is a good topic to discuss. I have a hard time with the holidays. It's gotten easier over the years for me to see holidays as just another day but I am also sad. I really like your suggestion to volunteer and help others. I do some volunteer work and I enjoy it very much. This year I plan to relax and keep things simple and enjoy the important things in life that really matter. I'll be here on PC to check in with anybody who wants to talk.