Like I said, at meetups often I see that there are men who are probably on the spectrum, or if not, at least very nerdy. However, the women whom I meet are not, as in they are almost always "normal", i.e. talkative, can read and show body language like a mime, are almost always the life of the party and know how to handle social situations, etc. Up to now I have never met a woman who were "weird" or where something seemed off and they had problems socialising.

So according to this basic analysis, this leaves the dating pool being a lot more males than females (high male-to-female gender ratio), yet there are quite a few "weird" and ASD men. However, on the female side, there are much less females than males, plus over 95% of the women are very normal and adhere to the rules of normalcy as established by society.

In Europe it seemed like there were more women who were quieter and more introverted than over here. Right now I am trying to get there. But being an American citizen makes the process much harder than if I were a citizen of a European country or of a current or former European colony