yes, children do act out sexually and in most cases it is normal for them to do so... but when the child demonstrates knowledge that isn't developmentally appropriate for the child's age...it should cause adults to raise red flags...

He was saying things like, "Oh baby, let's do this some more."

at the very least he had watched movies that were not age appropriate... he was old enough to know that this behavior wasn't ok... and he wasn't acting out with a child of his peer group... he chose a child that was younger... weaker and who didn't understand what was happening to them.

the fact that it has caused you distress is reason enough for you to explore why it has... and do what you need to do to process the information... by doing this your not labeling yourself as a victim... you taking steps to understand why this memory has caused you pain ... as far as i am concerned that is anything but a victim.

lyn