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Old Nov 07, 2019, 09:43 PM
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Originally Posted by Jennifer 1967 View Post
I’ve been working hard on healing. Obsessively so. It’s taken over most of my life and much of my waking hours to where I’ve lost days at a time and haven’t noticed things around me. I have ruthlessly searched out and tried new treatments where I could. I’ve moved the goal posts quite a distance and still realize I may be tilting at wind mills.


I lost a good friendship due to my obsession. It hurts...it really does. I got some good advice tonight from a very wise soul: grieve the loss, reflect on it and learn from it and celebrate the good times you shared. I’m doing that now.


Thanks for letting me share that. It helps to get it out.


Warm wishes to all and hugs to those that need them.


You did get some fantastic advice. I can’t think of much more to add other than just be especially kind to yourself while you go through the process
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