I still don't know what I am myself. I was labeled that very early on in age in elementary school. It shear torture for me
and that kind of humiliation stays with you. It did with me anyway.

So I know what your going through scott, but if you know deep down inside your happily married, then you stick with that and just be yourself.

Like I said I still have an identity disorder from this. I had to take a break from dating since 2003. Because I'm still confused, and I think alot had to do with being cruified in
school by other classmates.

okay good luck