Seriously, though. There are so many ways. What are your hobbies? Have you looked into any groups or clubs that meet to pursue those hobbies? What about hobbies you have thought about but not yet taken part in? Pets? Breed? There are St. Bernard owners' groups and Corgi groups and Bengal groups... Church or other faith situation? Tons of potential opportunities there. What kind of exercise/workout stuff are you into? Yoga? Pilates? Running? Weights? Spinning? Cycling? Swimming? Hiking? Climbing?

How about the arts? Book club? Writing group for fiction, poetry, or nonfiction? Painting, sculpting, blowing glass, wood carving? Car or motorcycle junkie? Into antiques? Garden club? Volunteering opportunities? Museum? Conservation groups such as Sierra Club or Audobon Society?

I am not trying to be ridiculous, I just don't know you. I list all the above because, depending on where you are located, any or all of these could represent solid opportunities to meet quality guys. Having a shared interest in Vizslas or astronomy might sound silly, but it could offer a chance to meet someone you have something in common with. And that is all it takes. Both my long-term partnerships (one 17 years, one 10) grew out of brief, one-time meetings. But I liked them and so I pursued my interest. It worked both times.

There are some good dating websites. I know, I know. But really, there are some decent ones. They are not all hookup sites, though there are a lot of those. Have you tried to find one that feels like it might have reputable men on it?

All you need is the chance to meet some quality guys. It only takes one.

That is all I got for now. I wish you luck. I believe that action is the solution to your issue. Sitting back and waiting is not. It's almost 2020. Go for it.