Thank you all for your replies-- and just to be clear, I simply posted on the abuse forum because I thought it would be most fitting to do so. I thought that the people who regularly post on this form would have good information and opinions for me-- and I was right. I was not posting on this forum to get a validation or label of some type of sexual abuse-- that is not at all what I think occurred-- However, I know that this is something that stuck with me for 20+ years for a reason... and I was wondering what others thought.