>> yes you misunderstood because i wasn't talking to you.
i was talking to pinksoil.
on the basis of what she posted here.
thanks.

> ouch - open forum

i'm very sorry - i really genuinely didn't mean that in the way it came out. i understand how what i said was 'ouch' and i apologise for that. what i meant to convey by that was that different people do of course have different circumstances. i most certainly did not mean my take on pinksoils situation (on the basis of the way she explained it) to be my take on everybody elses situation. that was what i meant to convey - that i appreciate that other people have other circumstances and i really didn't mean for what i said to pinksoil to be something that necessarily applied to others circumstances at all.

i hope that is clearer. sorry for the abrupt way i put that.