Not whispering exactly. But every once in a while whenever I'm getting too worked up for 'normal' conversation she would start talking to me in a rather soothing, monotonous voice. In those moments I'm not really in a place for her words to get through to me. But the tone of her voice does reach me, somehow, somewhere.


If nothing else it helps me to find solid ground again and not to drift off into negative transference, (which for me is when she tends to become some sort of mutant monster), which wouldn't really help in those worked up moments.