Honestly it sounds to me like a pretty normal Pdoc, but then I don’t have a very high opinion of Pdocs in general. If he is a good fit for you and seems to do his job well then I would say to just ignore it. I adore my Pdoc, we have worked together 10+ years and “raised our kids together” (we talked kids a lot as our kids were close in age and we were similar in how we parented). If I saw something like that on her I personally would confront it but only because she has gone out of her way to present herself differently to me and I would feel as though she had lied. But... I have also met her kids and her husband (they were at the office one day so she introduced me), I know which (modest) car is hers in the parking lot and I know quite a bit of general information about her lifestyle.