
Nov 09, 2019, 03:25 AM
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Member Since: Dec 2018
Location: New Jersey
Posts: 6,008
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Hey @Bobspace
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Originally Posted by Bobspace
I got very angry and said I was devorcing her. She said she was going to stop that our marriage will be better then ever. So I gave it more time. But it turns out, as time went on they still talk and text a lot. Went to them a couple of times to tell them to stop. They said ok that nothings going on they are just friends, that I can trust them. Ok. I kept watching. Time went on and I heard some very disturbing things, thru my resources. At this time she thinks I’ve forgot about what’s been going on. She does not know that I know she’s in love with him and they talk/text constantly. And more than friendship talk. They talk about how much they miss each other. Miss all the things they did together and even the sex. She has no clue of how much I know. It’s starting to really bother me, I constantly think about it everyday. I know she loves me, and I really love her also and our marriage is better then it ever was. Still don’t have sex as much as I like but it is more. But I do not like the idea she’s ln love with someone else also.. it messes me up inside bad. I’m trying to live with that and our money problems still. I’m having a hard time and could use some help/advice.
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I do not believe this is love from your wife. How could she take advantage of you and hurt you like this, no matter how long you have been married? I have been married 24 years and it would devastate me.
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I’m afraid of devorce. I will not get devorced and it’s my fault she can not have a guy friend and that I’m not secure about it. She will make everybody think it’s my fault. And I don’t want that. Please help.
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she is cheating on you and it doesnt matter what other people think. The facts matter.
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