Thanks for all the replies. It's so interesting to see what others think! For the record, I can't see my T ever doing it, at least not without talking to me about it first. She's pretty open for a T but she's also boundaried, so think she would realise the implications if she did do it. I don't think I would accept although I'd be tempted to. I do get jealous of her friends and family, so seeing her interactions with them wouldn't be in any way therapeutic for me. I think I just like to fantasise what I might feel like and do if one day I found she had sent me a request!