Thank you. She lowers her tone when I'm struggling but yesterday was the first time she whispered.we were talking about bad memories how they happen and how it felt then she leaned forward and whispered asking me if I could tell her how I think about myself. I just shook my head as couldn't talk then she spoke in a quiet tone then she whispered another question to me which i cant think of at the moment and then she said that it was ok and we can talk about it another time and asked me to take a deep breathe. I shook my head and she said you need to breathe. I dont think I was holding my breathe