No, she never did that. I'm not sure how I would have felt if she had. Usually when we talked about stuff in the same category that you mentioned, her voice seemed rather loud to me - but I don't think that was because she was actually talking louder. However, I think if I noticed that she was whispering or trying to be all soothing and stuff, I might not respond in a positive way and become argumentative in an effort to make her stop.