I wouldn't change who I am. I would reflect though, and see if I'm doing something that's pushing ppl away. A therapist can help. And then change my behavior. Especially if its hurting others.

Edit: I just read your response post. I did not mean to imply you are hurting others. You sound benign and gentle. Do you have trouble relating to others? Is it hard to trust that other ppl are good and will accept you as is? Do you accept yourself? Are you in therapy?