Thank you Buffy01 and possum220. The idea of a hobby never crossed my mind for some reason. I understand that being too obsessed with one person is dangerous and can lead to emotional decisions. Meeting new people is something I struggle with and know needs work. Knowing these things and learning about how and why decisions are made helped get me this far. When I think of the word hobby I think of fishing or hobbytown usa. I guess focusing around learning more about hobbies and what they are would help with figuring out a hobby.
Thank you both again for your help.