Hi everyone

My partner recently told me that he doesn't feel secure. He is having the feeling that he cannot lean on me. We are stable in the sense, we trust each other, we are honest with each other and we opened up to each other. He cannot express how the need for security arises (maybe due to family background, the family went through quick a bit of up and down? I suspect)

I have not been emotionally stable for the past months due to some family issues as well. He was there for me all the time.

We have talked this through and we are trying to make things work out for the both of us. I'm wondering if I can get any advice on how to make him feel more secure? I know I have some work to do on emotion control.

Thank you in advance.