So this happened a year ago. To the point I left the sports club.
Till this day I'm still puzzled of this individual behavior. I'm trying to figure out as to why some would go out there way to be like this.

So I thought maybe you guys might have an explanation for it.

So my question is why would someone have the need to push in a small sport club to be the top meaning becoming a staff member? to the point they persuade people by constantly baking cookies every week. Which was true. Every week since the frist day they came in. Was cookies. If anyone say some thing good about the cookies she would say "nah, I think they are disgusting" eventually she even started dating the captain of the club. Which I thought was unprofessional.

It got to the point the captain started ignoring me in the sport club. I felt very uncomfortable towards the end.

As my position in the staff sport club. I was one uncharged of the socail media of things. Taking photos and uploading them and taking videos.

The captain did have a lack of trust in me. Since he became very micromanaging towards me how social media should work.

The individual who baked the cookies once said to me because we were discussing about my videos. "Who has time to do that" which I felt really shocked and hurt her saying that.
I put a lot of work into it. I would go to the competitions of the sports club film it edited add music. It takes a lot of hours when editing if anyone worked in the professionalism business of filming.

I didnt got paid for this work. I did it because my therapist encouraged me to get out there socialise.

Well obviously it was wrong crowd of sorts of people unfortunately.

I left the group.
I even left messager group chat and there closee group private page.

Because the captain and the individual who baked the cookies who was or is dating the captain along with the president of the club. Had a meeting about rules in the club. There was a rule of who I could take photos of.
Personally I didnt like this. I felt annoyed, angry and frustrated. Because once people start controlling your creativity flow. It just ends up terrible. It's like when producers in films have more control than the director and the end product of the movie sucks.

So I left.
Never heard anything from anyone from the club.

Accept for the president and this old dude who is a coach of the club. Unfollow me on Instagram.
I felt rejected and hurt. Confused. Because I haven't spoken to these people since last year.
I thought "Oh they probably spoke about me and had some werid theory of why I was messaging the captain and thought I liked the captain, some werid rubish" when really I was using a skill from this group I went to Dailet behaviour therapy of how to communicate to people. Which is called Dear Man which stands for
D Stands for Describe
E Stands for Express
A Stands for Assert
R Stands for Reinforce

M stands for Mindful
A Stands for Assertive
N Stands for Negotiate

I also leant how to emotional vaildate people.

So because I had no friends and captain was nice to me to begin with. I guess I became over friendly and that probably why he ignored me. Also, well I offer help to the coach and the president to help with there end of year club competition match. The captian got upset because he couldnt do what he wanted to do last year.
So literally he ignored everyone and would go in another hall and trained individual there sports.

So all and all what you think of the situation?