The counselor she is seeing has a PhD. She has also been to see a more medically oriented Dr. a few times. Why wouldn't they have told her if she had any clinical problems? So you think she is acting totally cold towards me, and not wishing to see me at all based on the recommendations from the counselor? She told me that her counselor told her that she shouldn't date anyone for like a year.

What worries me is that she is staying with her Grandparents who have NUMEROUS psychological problems of their own and are VERY manipulative. I have already seen how they are molding her into another person already. Much of the time she spent in counseling was spent talking about her problems with these people, and now she is living witht them