''not fitting in'' - this seems to be a common fear or feeling It isn't really something I feel although I felt it all the time when a cub.

How do we make this forum welcoming for all? I'm not suggesting it isn't welcoming. I wonder how we can make it more welcoming?

''not allowed to be angry'' - another common feeling

Only deserving support if in ''crisis'' (irl and even online sometimes.)

This makes me sad. I don't even ask for support irl when in crisis. I deal with it without asking for help from professionals. I've seen the ''wrong'' professionals. I don't even know why I'm writing this. Thanks and love to all those who relate, even somewhat, and to all those who support others and share their kindness here.