Hello melvyncty: I see this is your first post here on PC. So... welcome to Psych Central.  The Coping with Emotions forum may also be of interest to you. Here's a link:
https://psychcentralforums.com/coping-with-emotions/
And then here are links to 8 articles from Psych Central's archives. The first article is on attachment styles. The next 5 discuss how to help your partner feel more secure in your relationship as well as how to communicate more effectively. And the last 2 articles talk about when to consider seeking couples counseling:
What's My Attachment Style and Why Does It Matter? | Happily Imperfect
5 Ways to Help Your Partner Feel More Secure in the Relationship
How to Better Understand Your Partner
7 Simple Steps to Improve Your Relationship
https://psychcentral.com/blog/5-ways...er-feel-loved/
https://psychcentral.com/blog/5-esse...s-for-couples/
https://psychcentral.com/blog/7-sign...es-counseling/
https://psychcentral.com/blog/answer...es-counseling/
I hope you find PC to be of benefit.
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