That's strange. I've gotten regular Pap smears and my doctor knows I've never been sexually active. I thought they were good to do anyway. It isn't a pleasant experience, but the pinching feeling and pressure only last a minute or two. I'm glad your appt went well, though!

On the other note, in agreeance with everyone else. Pastor T should never tell you that you can't do something. He isn't the boss of you! Only you are