ok, this'll prob get moved for being in the wrong place but whatever.

the whole point of this site to me is not just to receive support but also to give support. that just makes me feel like a total waste of space coz i'm the most crap advice giver on the planet. like i've just read a thread by someone going thru something i'm going thru too...and i don't have the SLIGHTEST clue what to say to this person. why am i SO useless ! ! !