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Old Nov 14, 2019, 04:35 PM
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Originally Posted by bluebicycle View Post
Thanks everyone.

The meeting went exceptionally well—better than I imagined!! My boss recognized me working on weekends and late at night to get stuff done, so he expressed his appreciation for my hard work. That mean he knows I am working my @ss off to make things right, rather than seeing me as a lazy, good-for-nothing bum hole.

Just gotta make it through tomorrow. However, I have a therapy appt early morning, so I have to take time out of my day to go to that. I really don't want to go to that appt anymore, though... but it's too late to cancel. I just feel like I don't need therapy this week because all of my major stressors are GONE as of today. I mean, I was gonna talk about the business trip and meeting work goals, but... that discussion is not needed anymore. If I had known *yesterday* that I would be okay (trip wise and goal wise), I would have been within the 24 hour cancellation notice window.
Hey!

I am very happy for you !
You have done a great job with focusing on your goals and working your way towards them! We cannot always meet them; yet, at least we have some goals to lead us in some direction!

Did your concentration improve or did you struggle through?
I am thnking the ritalin must have helped some?

Maybe you can be proactive with your therapist? I mean: Maybe you can identify some goals of your own? You can define/specify how you'd like your life. It's often a matter of identifying what we want and putting a plan in place.

Many of us spend our time in therapy reactiing to what is happening to us or around us, etc. Sometimes we need to do so. If/when we feel our major stressors have let up, we can then use the time to work as a team with our therapist on setting and reaching our life goals!

Can you tell I hope you'll have a happy, fulfilling life?
I do! I think you can have the life you want to have.
If we don't set goals, we tend to just float along, letting the wind blow us all over the place. You are blessed with many qualities that give you a "leg Up" on reaching any goals you set for your life.

Just a thought!
Love Ya!
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