Thank you all for your feedback, it’s nice to know that someone out there is even listening. I did read some of those links, good info, thanks. At this point, it does seem like I need help living with it. My last chance for her is if she is still going to try to see each other again. So far it has not happened. With the stuff that I read, they say if the other person does not cut it off , The chances of things being fixed will not happen. My daughter is fine, I don’t think she thinks about it anymore.