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Old Nov 15, 2019, 03:51 PM
fern46 fern46 is offline
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Originally Posted by raging vortex View Post
not long ago it was my grandmother's funeral.

I emailed my family asking if they'd play a song from me to remember her, and they said no,

Possible trigger:


their is no relationship their at all

I do try: but get nothing back

like: it was my mother's birthday in october, and I emailed her happy birthday

Possible trigger:


toxic.
Agreed. My mother always says 'when people show you who they are, be sure to open your eyes and look.' Unfortunately, you have 'seen' who they are over and over. I am grateful they shunned you. It gave you a chance to grow away from their toxicity.

I know the pain of being rejected by your mother. It is incredibly difficult. I'm sorry you have to live with these individuals as your family. Do you have other more supportive people in your life you consider to be like family?
Hugs from:
Wild Coyote
Thanks for this!
daladico, Wild Coyote