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Old Nov 16, 2019, 09:58 AM
frustlandlady frustlandlady is offline
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Location: Europe
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Hallo to everyone. So here I am with a new date and many concerns about him...

After one and a half month of meeting at work he invited me out, he did everything to make it easy for me, as I have no car and it was not easy for me to go on that specific day.
With few words, 95% of the time he was talking about himself, expressing how important it is for him to feel great with a woman, to make him feel that special person he has never felt before. He said that I am a very sweet and caring person and he was expecting me to be that woman. He asked me a few typical things to get to know me better, like my interests and what I am doing in general without trying to know my opinion on different subjects.

Meanwhile, I could not express any opinion on his life matters that he was talking about without being judged in an impolite way like "Is this all you have to say? I am telling you this and this and this and all you have to say is this?".

Meanwhile, I was very cautious with this situation and he kept saying "I was expecting you to react in the X way, I was expecting you to tell me the X thing to show that you were thinking of me" etc etc pointing out a dozen of things that he wanted to here and I did not say.
4 days later he called me complaining that I didn't even text him to ask how he is doing (Would you have called him after that date?), mentioning again all the things that I should have done and I didn't do to show him how much I care etc etc. He even compared me with a supposed lady that made him feel super special when he was young. I told him "I am not this special person you are looking for and I wish you to find that person" and never had contact with him again apart from a typical "hallo" at work.

Some last details, both times he kept saying that he feels veeeeery sure about his opoinions, he kept saying that most of the things people do are of no importance and that he is sick of people's behaviors, that he has thought much of every detail of every life aspect and that what opinion he expresses is very serious and well thought. He also has no friends (as far as I know).

But the thing that feared me the most was when he was talking about how he sees life and and how much he needs to feel strong emotions, he was getting waay too passionate, he was raising his voice level, like something was torturing his soul and wanted to scream it out...
What on earth is going on with this guy...

At work he is very king, never offends anyone, he is very responsible and always willing to help everyone. But on the other hand he is constantly asking people to tell him what features he has that make him more special than other people...
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