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Old Nov 16, 2019, 04:25 PM
*Beth* *Beth* is offline
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Originally Posted by FluffyDinosaur View Post
Yeah, it's so incredibly exhausting, I feel for you. Is it linked to any particular mood for you? For me I think it's worst during depression and dysphoric/mixed moods. I can't believe how I used to not realize it was abnormal.
I wish I had a good and clear answer to your excellent question. If I'm manic I will tend to act out in anger/rage. Depressed or mixed state...I'll feel like crawling in bed, and I am actually exhausted from the ruminating.

Regardless of mood, what I'm trying to do when the rumination won't stop is self-care. For example, take a refreshing shower and give myself a mini-pedicure. Light candles, incense, and play music. Color my hair a fun color. Do chores - surprisingly, accomplishing chores helps me feel empowered and can disrupt the hamster-on-a-wheel thoughts.
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Thanks for this!
lightly toasted