Hopefully if you talk with her at your session she can fix things with the office so that they handle it better next time. I had a nurse that worked for my first Pdoc that constantly interfered with a similar arrangement with me and Pdoc. Pdoc insisted that the other nurse (Mary) be the only one to deal with me because Mary usually understood what was going on but even if she didn’t she knew how to handle it in a way that didn’t set me off.