NP - It sounds like youre telling your t now what you THINK he wants to hear, instead of how you really feel, and he is not buying it.

Another thing that jumped out at me was, you say that his sunday call was the proof that someone cared about you. This kind of denigrates the whole rest of his being there for you. It reminds me of when i innocently told my t, "i loooove our city bus system, they are always there for me and get me here on time!" And he said, "and what am i, chopped liver?" Point being, my parents were never there for me and that was being repaired.

It also makes me think, sunday was the only part that you "commanded" - the rest was more freely negotiated, no? That probably needs to be talked about. A lot. With insight, not denial.

Imo, he bears fault in this; he should never have started it. But to refer you to ER seemed pretty cold under the circumstances. So i doubt there are grounds for malpractice, but idk.