NP - what an awful few sessions you've had with your T. I do think he could and should have handled things a lot more sensitively. It sounds like either he's thinking a different approach is needed in the work with you, or something is going on in his personal life which is making him feel overwhelmed, or both. Either way I feel he should have dealt with things a lot better than he did and been mindful of it's affect on you rather than becoming defensive. I'm so sorry you've been left feeling like this but its totally understandable!