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Originally Posted by winter4me
It is not only normal, it is healthier than not feeling for this person who clearly struggled internally even as she likely pushed others away. Don't keep it a secret. And do not feel uncomfortable with your feelings around others----sometimes people find it easier to dismiss uncomfortable subjects. It's OK to say "I feel badly for her even though I wasn't close to her and had problems with her behavior." I doubt this is the life and death she wished for.
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I totally agree with you.