@Fuzzybear I am willing to bet that as much as your mother puts you down, she is desperateto not let you out of her life. Communal narcissists are annoying as **** and you can always spot them by the way they describe themselves with touchy feely adjectives. One selfish lady I knew, wrote "serving others" as her only interest on her Facebook profile. Such incompetent self promotion makes me laugh whenever I think of it.