When you are with a narcissistic family member,life is really difficult.The lies,gaslighting,manipulation,meanness,underhanded comments,name calling all are insidious. No contact is the only solution.It is again difficult to go no contact if narc is a partner,parent or sibling.Some are able to go no contact,but undoing the effects of narcissistic abuse is monumental task for the victim.My heart goes out for all of you.