Not sure if this is the right spot for this but here goes. I have a extremely toxic older sister who has abused me both emotionally and physically and both my parents. Fast forward to now she uses her son to get her way with my dad . Apparently she wants him to come up to her place for Thanksgiving two weeks after the the actual day and I know she only included me because of dad. When my dad mentioned my boyfriend coming I clearly heard her say he wasn't invited . I've tried and tried to be civil to her and include her but I can't do it anymore. She now wants her the Christmas gifts for her son brought up to her place instead of coming down here to where I live with my dad. I don't have a choice on the matter of dealing with the matter as I live in the same house as dad and cant afford to go live anywhere else and don't really want to leave my dad right now. Just needing some kind words . Thanks