So I've been hiding my true sexual nature for years now. Since before me and my wife even met. So about a week ago I came out as a Pansexual to her. Honestly I was surprised by how she reacted. She said " It's fine, because you're married to me". Which is true because I am married to her and would never be unfaithful.

Now that being said I can easily fantasize/dream about dating another man, woman, or transgender. Too me gender isn't a problem with me. I see the person not their gender. I could easily see myself developing a relationship with anyone and possibly falling in love.

Only problem is i'm married. I do love my wife, I really do. but tings have gotten rather crazy. She wants to move out of town, find new jobs, and start trying for a baby. So maybe all this stress is causing me to fantasize about being with another person. On top of all that she has become even more depressed these past few months. So now all I feel like I do is comfort and try to make her life better. But in doing this I somehow feel worse. I'm just so confused.