It seems to me that he's not respecting you and your boundaries. Can I ask you how is the relationship going with him outside of ALL of this? Does he treat you well? It seems weird to me that someone who loved his Girlfriends would do this to her. I'd reconsider your relationship and do a Pro and Cons List. Of course also see if you can talk about ALL of this with him. Please be kind to yourself. You deserve to be loved! Do NOT put up with ALL of this! You deserve better! You deserve much, much better than ALL of this! Wishing you the best of luck with whatever you'll do! Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @Gfofaddict, your Family, your Friends, your Boyfriend and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking no matter what happens, ok?!