@guy1111

I completely disagree that you should tone down your sensitivity.

Have you ever read any of Brene Brown’s books on vulnerability and shame? She also has some YouTube talks. She said a man once told her that the women in his life would rather see him die on top of his white horse than watch him fall down. She was incredibly humbled by what this man said to her and it led her down a whole new path in her research and her career.

Dr. Laura Schlessinger also has a lot to say about how women treat their husbands and while she is harsh in her delivery, I do like her message. She’s got a Podcast and some books.

I’m very sorry you’re feeling sad and I do agree that marriage counseling would be a good thing. If you could find the right counselor and if your wife would be willing to go it might really help open up communication. I don’t think your wife has even a clue about how you feel. I would like to believe that if she understood the power of her actions, she would want to make a change.