I think people just don’t know what to say. You’ve had a particularly rough time these past several months. I can see why these statements about everything being “fine” is not the least bit comforting. Sometimes all you can do is stick it out and hope that along the way you will find some supportive friends. Sometimes I try to think back on particularly trying times and that I managed to muddle through that stuff so hopefully I can keep muddling through the current stuff and find my way. Have faith in yourself and take things one day at a time. I truly wish you all the best.