I’m so sorry you are having to go through this!! I’m so thankful for your brothers presence and his comfort and love for you.

Material things and control possess people and they become controlling and very selfish and abusive.

I pray that you find comfort tonight in the memory of the care your mom took in packaging your wedding dress and the comfort of her clothes. I hope that that that overshadows the very selfishness and control of your sister.

You were brave and again, I am so thankful for the comfort you were able to experience, in that very hard place, from your brother.

I am praying for you now for peace and calmness and rest.

Trail. [emoji254]

ETA: I wanted to add that the validation of the other people there, of your sisters behavior and actions, would be a comfort to me. When someone else’s behavior is acknowledged by someone else, it calms me in some way. It feels like it can settle and be real to me and then I can deal with the emotions of it.

I just wanted to add that as a comfort for you if you have dealt with it in that way.