I feel bad to be posting topics so soon after I have registered, but last night I guess my great grandfather went to the hospital today and he has been having a heart attack for a week. He's 90, in weak health, and the doctors don't expect him to live through his surgery. If by chance he does, he has two months because of his kidney function.

My grandmother is who I am very worried about. She was widowed, and is a strong wonderful woman. But losing someone's father is hard, and I want to be able to support her the best I can, I love her very much. What is the best way for me to help her?

I'm not a touchy feely I share my feelings person, is there a way I can be there for her that will help her more then most things or something?

I appreciate any advice, and I'm sorry again.