Great comments above.

Disorder aside, what kinds of circumstances are causing you to feel obsessive jealousy about your bf’s ex? Are they still close and you feel threatened? Maybe you are being unreasonable and having an over-active imagination or maybe you are really sensing a threat to your relationship with your bf.

I have not typically been jealous in relationships. There was one time this other girl was putting the moves on my bf in college. I got out of bed, sick with high fever, to go to this event in order to not let her have the opportunity to steal my bf. IDK if the threat was real, if he would have gone for her, if I would have lost him had I stayed home sick. But, I sure did go running out of fear and jealousy. Many months later, I ended breaking up with him because I didn’t want to commit to him.

I can’t think of any times I felt jealous when there was no real threat to cause me to feel that way.