I am so sorry you are struggling. Are you seeing someone for the depression? Are you both retired? How long have you been together? Have you ever done couples' therapy? why can't you bring up the subject?

I have bipolar type 1 and have the same sleep problem. My clock is reversed and I can't seem to get it turned around. The sleep experts have all said the same thing. I HAVE to stay up alll day and try to go to bed like a 'normal' person. I am trying.

This is not the end. Don't give up. You just need some help.