26, not a virgin. Lost it at 17. All I can say Is that it changed absolutely nothing for the better. It complicated my entire life, how I view women and relationships and I wish I had the innocent essence I used to have. Maybe, I'd have less problems.. I don't think you should be ashamed of yourself. I used to think having sex is what would make me a man or some kind of badge of honor or rites of passage bullcrap. I was sadly mistaken. Maybe, you should just focus on your work and if a woman cares about you for who you are she'll come around and it will all work out.