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Old Nov 23, 2019, 03:01 PM
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Originally Posted by Lonelyinmyheart View Post
Have you addressed it yet? Would be interested in how it went. I have very deep feelings for my T and been able to share this (she's fine with it) but not that I find her really attractive in a physical way. I'm not even sure I'd want sex with her or anything, I just find her really erotic and it's bothering me. I do think it goes deeper than sex but my brain is making it into sex because obviously sex is connection and desire.

Personally, what I have done with the sharing of deep feelings is take it step by step. I talked a lot about having deep feelings for a professional in the past to gauge t's reaction, then stepped it up a little by sharing feelings and reactions towards her. But this approach isn't right for everyone and maybe you just need to come out with it all. I know I will need to tell T about the erotic feelings at some point, but currently gauging how far I can talk about sex with her in general. So far, so good.
Actually, I haven't told her yet. I'm kind of committed with our work and I enjoy very much our sessions. I'm waiting for an appropriate moment.

But...I think that I won't talk about the erotic feelings. I'm finding quite embarrassing to tell her that.

I'm thinking to employ the "step by step" method rather than going all out at once, which I wanted to use in the first place.

I wish that all works out well for you and your T.
Thanks.
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